The fear of public speaking has long been regarded as a formidable monster, a ghastly zombie that refuses to die. It creeps in the shadows of our minds, trailing behind us as we approach the stage, haunting our thoughts the night before and feasting on our anxieties. Like a relentless ghoul, it claws at our confidence, whispering that we are not good enough and that failure awaits. As we step onto the stage, it unleashes its undead power, stalking our every word and threatening to devour our composure.
It’s a fear that strikes a chord with many, including myself. Public speaking is a common fear, one that often ranks high on the list for countless individuals. Surveys consistently reveal that the fear of public speaking often surpasses the fear of death or other phobias. Yet, fear is a complex and subjective emotion, varying from person to person. We may harbour fears that we consider the most prominent or challenging to overcome.
However, it’s time to challenge the prevailing notion that public speaking is our ultimate fear. Surprisingly, death takes second place, implying that we would rather face our mortality than address an audience. But I assure you, countless things strike more fear into our hearts than speaking in public.
Perpetuating the myth
We all have our fears—spiders, heights, or the dark. Yet, our trepidation often becomes exaggerated when it comes to public speaking. Standing in front of a group of people and delivering a speech can be nerve-wracking. However, is it genuinely more terrifying than the fear of drowning or being buried alive? I dare say it is not.
So, why do we perpetuate the myth that public speaking reigns as our greatest fear? Perhaps society has conditioned us to believe this fallacy. Witnessing numerous individuals struggle with public speaking has convinced us that it must be one of the most daunting endeavours in existence. Yet, with the right mindset and ample practice, public speaking can become a breeze. It’s time to strip it of its undue power and redirect our fears and attention toward more deserving matters.
Let us reclaim our perspective and acknowledge that, though challenging, public speaking does not deserve the crown of our greatest fear. Doing so can redefine our relationship with public speaking, unlock our growth potential, and discover that the supposed zombie-like fear was merely an illusion.
About Richard Tardif
An award-winning journalist, a bestselling author and editor, proven writing and speaking coach, and a member of Pointe-Claire Toastmasters. He has a tangible and sympathetic heart to share with readers, wordsmiths, and other professional communicators.
